in turning twenty-one
May. 2nd, 2025 02:05 pmHow have you been?
I'm sitting here at our student publication's office in campus, listening between a random Youtube background music and a professor's voice at the classroom nearby. Our class was cancelled, so I spent my morning doing my backlogs for both academic and my scholarship. I'm still not in the mood to do my requirements.
For what seems like a rare occurrence (because I'm even more of a sleepyhead now), I slept less than four hours last night and spent my first hour of being 21 on a Discord call with my friends, where we went down a trip to memory lane, quietly laughing over our very cringe-y yet wholesome high school pictures. It felt so nice to be in that space, comforted by the thought of having them with me in a new year again. I am so thankful for them in ways that I sometimes don't realize immediately.
Another friend gifted three pairs of earrings she made herself. A friend is also planning to make baked sushi on Monday. Sometimes I feel so, so un-deserving of their kindness. Like it's an act I have to reciprocate one way or another in the future. I think I have not done much or offered that much in this world for me to be handed these little pockets of good. But I know I'm wrong, that even with just my friend's presence I am comforted and feel loved, and I know this may be the same way for them too. So I bite back the self-depreciation and feel filled with gratitude and a kind of joy that makes me want to savor it all, one by one, slowly.
So many things have happened while being 20. And I owe this vibrancy of my life, no matter how miniscule or mundane, to the people I am inspired by. My collectives, friends, siblings, my grandparents, the people in school, the masses. Thank you for showing me the bravery of choosing to step forward every single day. When I am overcome with fear and worry, your love for this world is not lost on me, and I cling to them in desperation and determination.
May the possibilities of tomorrow allow us to assert ourselves anew.
I'm sitting here at our student publication's office in campus, listening between a random Youtube background music and a professor's voice at the classroom nearby. Our class was cancelled, so I spent my morning doing my backlogs for both academic and my scholarship. I'm still not in the mood to do my requirements.
For what seems like a rare occurrence (because I'm even more of a sleepyhead now), I slept less than four hours last night and spent my first hour of being 21 on a Discord call with my friends, where we went down a trip to memory lane, quietly laughing over our very cringe-y yet wholesome high school pictures. It felt so nice to be in that space, comforted by the thought of having them with me in a new year again. I am so thankful for them in ways that I sometimes don't realize immediately.
Another friend gifted three pairs of earrings she made herself. A friend is also planning to make baked sushi on Monday. Sometimes I feel so, so un-deserving of their kindness. Like it's an act I have to reciprocate one way or another in the future. I think I have not done much or offered that much in this world for me to be handed these little pockets of good. But I know I'm wrong, that even with just my friend's presence I am comforted and feel loved, and I know this may be the same way for them too. So I bite back the self-depreciation and feel filled with gratitude and a kind of joy that makes me want to savor it all, one by one, slowly.
So many things have happened while being 20. And I owe this vibrancy of my life, no matter how miniscule or mundane, to the people I am inspired by. My collectives, friends, siblings, my grandparents, the people in school, the masses. Thank you for showing me the bravery of choosing to step forward every single day. When I am overcome with fear and worry, your love for this world is not lost on me, and I cling to them in desperation and determination.
May the possibilities of tomorrow allow us to assert ourselves anew.